Thursday, March 22, 2012

March 2012


                                           New Elder


This is Elder MaDill, new elder from Aurora, Utah. His mom moved into Aurora I Ward and he hasn't actually lived in Aurora yet, although he did leave from the Aurora I Ward.  His mom works for Gurney Trucking.  He told us the son of the people she works for has been called to the Micronesia Guam Mission.  We think it must be Jodi and Scott Gurney's son Jaden.  Can you believe it--- Two elders and one mission couple from the same small town serving in the same mission, especially this mission.  Jared Hallows served here and Scott Robins, but it amazes me that three calls to the same mission came so close from our area.
Elder MaDill seems to be adjusting well and doing great.


                                  International Women's Day


On March 1st, Pohnpei celebrated International Woman's Day.  Women in each municipality (like our counties) and different woman's organizations and clubs had a huge celebration for women. We wondered where all these women came from.  Each group dressed alike and were announced as they walked onto the gym floor at the Palikir Community College Campus.  The groups just kept coming and coming.


 There were probably a thousand women on the floor when they finished introducing the groups.  It was an amazing sight.  The colors of their clothing were bright and the women looked so happy and beautiful.  They all sat on the floor for several speakers which lasted through the morning.  We had district missionary meeting at 11:30 a.m. so we left during the speeches.We also had seminary that afternoon so we missed theiir dances in the afternoon.  The crowd was huge and the parking for vehicles  was indescribable.  Even if we would have had time I don't think we would have returned in the afternoon.  When we left in the morning, the aisles were clogged with people and the stairs.  It made me a lttle clastrophobic and glad they do not have fires in Pohnpei.  Next year we will take a day off to see the whole event hopefully.

                                 Sunday Dinner at Sam's


This is the famous Sam Bailey in the dark shirt at the head of the table.  He rents his house and the land it is on (separately interestingly).  But the house was in dilapidated condition when he moved in because it had been empty for a few years.  The house is on cement posts and kids had disconnected the water pipes, roof had a hole and leaks, etc.  He has made improvements for rent and the house is really cute.  It is small and has "tin" siding.  It has a loft and the ground floor.  He extended the deck about 6 feet.  The deck goes along the back and one side of the house.  The back of the house faces a bay where the Nett River goes into the ocean.  It is a beautiful view.  He built a porch swing that is very nice that sits in one corner of the deck--just past where I am sitting.  This is Sunday dinner March 11th.  He is quite a good cook.  He served rice, sauage, potato, and carrot curry, fruit, and homemade chocolate chip cookies.  We always play a game after dinner and this Sunday we played "truth or lie."  You learn a lot  about people by playing this game.  We played it at Dad's and Uncle Teddy came just in time to join in.  If there had been a prize, his first story would have taken it.  Actually, we do have a prize for our Sunday game.  Sam was given a big carved shark.  It is missing a tooth now and part of a fin.  It is a very "special" shark.  The person who wins the game (the host chooses the game of the night), takes the shark home for a week and signs it.


This is the view from the house toward the bay.  You can almost see the porch swing just behind Sister LeFevre.  Janice Smith, the young lawyer from Utah working with the state court, is sitting across from Sam.

                                 Janice's Apartment and Work



Janice lives in an apartment in the top of this building.  The bottom is a store and a laundry mat.
                       This is the state court building where Janice works.  It is a fairly nice building.

This is Janice's lunchroom/worker lounge.
              This is the restroom for her building.  If it rains really hard they do not have water and they lock the restrooms.  When it rains really hard the toilets in our apartment bubble, like boiling water.  It the lid isn't down, the water splashes outside the toilet. We are pretty careful to keep our toilets flushed. We've had a few little problems and one big one.  I am choosing not to go into detail on that one.  I'll just say Elder Kjar cleaned it up because he was the responsible party.

                                 Relief Society Birthday Party


Sister LeFevre, Sister Kjar, Sister Simron (the Home Arts Teacher at the Pics H.S (Home Ec.)
 
 The Pohnpei District celebrated the Relief Society Birthday Party together.  All the branches came to Pohnpei for a big celebration.  It started at about 10 a.m. with talks until noon.  They had take out for lunch: fish, rice, beef with peppers, and banana cooked in coconut milk.  It was tasty.  In the afternoon each branch performed a skit or a dance.  Afterward, they displayed their talents outside under the covered porch.  Sister Smith, the lady that made your hula skirts, showed how she ties the fibers to the waistband.  Others brought fish they had caught, vegetables or fruit they grow, handwork they do, baskets, etc.  They have many talents.  The Relief Society sister's in our branch made skirts.  The colorful pieces are like quilt blocks.  They use every little inch of fabric.  They surprised the sister missionaries in Kolonia and Sister LeFevre and I by making us skirts.  I felt very guilty accepting it because they take a long time and a lot of work.  I really love my skirt and will cherish it.   None of our sister's came up with a local dance to do.  Sister LeFevre and I taught them Cotto-Eyed Joe and several sister's from other branches joined us when they heard our music when we were practicing. The sister's love to laugh and have fun.


Sapwalap Branch

Nett Brancn
Palikier Branch

Mand Branch

Kolonia Branch


Kitti Branch


Sekere Branch


Uh Branch

        Church Donation of Wheelchairs, Crutches, and Walkers


On Tuesday, March 20th, the church donated 280 wheelchairs, 50-60 each crutches and walkers to the State Hospital.  All missionaries on the island were asked to come to the presentation if they did not have appointments.  The young Elders and Sisters with vehicles will be delivering wheelchairs etc. to people who need that service.  President Davis, counselor in the mission presidency, made the presentation and accepted the certificate of appreciation from the hospital.  He explained that the missionaries would not proselyte when they delivered.  There are no strings attached to the gift of the equipment.  It is all brandnew and very needed here.
Almost the whole audience for the program was missionaries.
 These are three recipients of the new wheelchairs that were presented at the program.  All had amputations because of diabetes. It seems that is a very common treatment for diabetes here.

                                  Zone District Activity


Zone Missionary Activity Monday, March 19th at Sapwalap Chapel
We were playing a game called Mafia.

 

New Missionary Couple


 Our third missionary couple for Pohnpei arrived Wednesday, March 21.  They are Elder and Sister Vincent from Parowan.  Their mission is for 18 months.  Elder Vincent knows Pres. Hanks, Elder Kjar's mission president from his mission in Samoa.  That made Elder Kjar very happy.  Pres. Hanks lived in Parowan and was Elder and Sister Vincent's stake president years ago. Elder Vincent was released as Stake President about 2 years ago.  At their departure meeting, they had the last five stake presidents attending.  They said they took a picture--that was quite an event.  Ellder Vincent and Elder LeFevre are both retired Post Masters.  They play this game of starting a zipcode and the other finishes it--it's very funny. They also both have artificial knees, Elder LeFevre one and Elder Vincent two.....so those two have quite a bit in common.


                                          Hike

Monday, the 26th, to make or break the new couple, we went to meet a family that live in the jungle about a 40 minute walk from the Uh chapel.  The father, Benjamin Dorus, was the first branch president of Uh, but has been inactive for some time.  Our Uh seminary/institute teacher, Margarita, was our guide with one of Benjamin's sons.  Benjamin is Margarita's uncle.  Brother Vincent and his wife are 68 and brother Vincent has two artificial knees as I mentioned before.  He fell 5 or 6 times on the rocky trail but was a trooper and always bounced right up again.


Elder LeFevre, Elder Vincent, Sister Vincent, Sister LeFevre, and Sister Kjar

      I told Dad not to get my tennis shoes in the picture , so he zoomed right in.  I knew you girls would notice them. Honest,  I do not wear my tennis shoes with skirts, this is the first time.  But I'm really glad I wore them on  this hike. 



                                                                             Benjamin's daughter and son


    Benjamin's family

     Benjamin is in the red shirt and his wife is in front of him.  He has seven children.  They were shy and didn't come out of the house that you can barely see in back of them.  The children do not go to school.


                                                                      They gave us coconuts--very refreshing!

     We had a good visit with the family.  They took a little while to warm up to us.  We asked Benjamin why he had stopped coming to church.  He said it was because people in the branch believed in just the Book of Mormon and not the Bible now.  I do know most of the people in Uh are new to the gospel and need  a return missionary for a gospel doctrine teacher.  Benjamin did come to church on Sunday.  None of his famiy came with him.  We were at Uh Sunday so I talked to him.  He said he was coming next Sunday with his family.  I wish we were going to be there.  We visit a different branch each Sunday and then start our rotation again. I hope he comes again and brings his family.

     For me it was a memorable day on Fast Sunday because I bore my testimony for the first time in Pohnpeian.  It was a memorized testimony.  I have been working on it for three months.  It is good to have said it.  Our teacher, Pres. Hemen was there on District business.  That made it a little scarier because I wanted him to feel like he was having some success with us--we are pretty slow at learning the language.  Dad also bore part of his testimony that he has been working on.


                                                           Our hike on the way back to the cars.  This is sugar cane.



   Elder and Sister Vincent, Elder and Sister LeFevre, Margarita, Elder and Sister Kjar

                                                              Halfway back to the trailhead.  We think we'll make it.



                      Do you recognize the two Tarzan's? They are considering swinging through the jungle on the vines.

                                          Nett


      Nett is a very special area to us.  It was recently made a branch.  They met in a large Nahs which has open sides and ends.  It has a tin roof and a cement floor three sides with open area of dirt floor in the middle.  The branch president, Victorino Mallarme has about 10 brothers.  They all are settled in the same area.  Most do not speak English well.  Pres. Mallarme speaks very little.  We teach Seminary/Institute there on Friday afternoon.  Knowing Pohnpeian would be very helpful to us there--we are still working on it.


Missyleen, wife of  Romeo Mallarme, was baptized Saturday, March 24th. 

Nett Seminary & Institute

Welsie and her new baby boy, Abinadi

       Welsie is the daughter of Pres. Mallarme and his wife Regina.  Baby Abinadi got a terrible case of chicken pox when he was two months old.  We visited him in the hospital and we have never seen chicken pox so thick.  His little body was literally covered from head to toe with blisters and he had an IV in his little hand.  About the 5th night in the hospital, they thought he was doing better and would leave the next day.  He died during the night, March 27th. We went to his funeral the next day.  They made a little wooden box the size of an orange crate and covered it in white cloth.  The lid had some artificial  flowers on top.  It was very sad, but this family has a testimony of the gospel and knows families can be together forever.  Pres. Mallarme and Regina went on the last temple trip and have been sealed in the temple.  Welsie is 18, I think, and has a little boy about 18 months.  Her husband was abusive and her  family finally had him leave.  At the funeral I asked where Amanda was, Pres. Mallarme's 14 year old daughter.  Her mother, Regina, told me she was sick with the chicken pox. We were very worried but we saw her after seminary/institute on Friday and she was up out of bed and scabbed over.  It looked like she had been covered as well but was recovering.

                              Sister Salaio and the Airport


     During the same week Welsie's baby was in the hospital, Sister Salaio was also in the hospital.  She is a young sister missionary from Papua New Guinea.   She ended up having to go to Guam to have her gall bladder and appendix laparoscopically removed.  At the airport we had another experience similar to when we came to Utah for Grandpa Stronks' funeral.  They were not going to let Sister Salaio board the plane because the hospital had not sent a paper 24 hours before the flight about her health condition.  They were faxing and phoning their Guam office.  Sister Salaio was sick and possibly would have her surgery that afternoon when she would arrive in Guam.  She needed to be on that airplane.  Sister Kennach said, "We are missionaries, everything will be OK."  Those were almost the exact words that young returned missionary had said to Elder Kjar and I in the LA airport when we were having trouble with a delayed flight.  We had a prayer and waited and waited and waited.  They checked Sister Salaio in and took her through security just in case she was cleared.  A few minutes before take off they told us she had been cleared.  Heavenly Father hears and answer our prayers.


         Sister Kjar, Sister Fritz (ward member) Sister Salaio, Sister Varea, Sister Kennach
                                                                                      Waiting at the airport



And waiting......


And waiting..


         Last but not least  of our airport photos, Elder LeFevre and Elder Kjar comparing the wear on the soles of their Crocs.  Elder Kjar's seemed a bit superior but Elder LeFevre wears his daily on the 3 mile airport walk.  Soooooo, the vote is still out on that one.








Sunday, March 18, 2012

Grandpa's funeral

Dad passed away February 15, 2012.  The funeral was February 18, 2012 at the Ashton Stake Center.
We were so glad Saul and Alaina could come with the other family members.
It was such a double blessing for us to be able to come to Dad's funeral and to see those of you that could come.  It was a celebration of Dad's good life and a great family reunion.  We made it, thanks to Matt and Becky's generousity for our tickets and Jake and Tracy picking us up at the airport.  We got to Ashton about five hours before the viewing.  As you know, because of a  flight delay in LA and the new flight the airline representative was miraculously able to get us on, we arrived without luggage.  Thanks to Aunt Gwen and her sister Dawn, I was dressed warmer than I would have been in my own clothes.  I really liked the warm boots I borrowed from Dawn.  I've decided I would like a pair for Utah winters.Tim and Uncle Dean helped Louis so he was also presentable. 

Because Dad was a veteran, the American Legion gave a six gun salute and played taps at the funeral.  They presented an American flag  to the family. It was done so respectfully and reverently it was very special and memorable.

At the luncheon at the church, the Relief Society had prepared a very nice beef dinner.  The little cousins had fun playing and running around.  The big cousins, aunts and uncles, brothers and sisters, and old friends enjoyed being together and visiting.  We took pictures of  some of the family groups.  Some left before we got their pictures.
Tim, Gwen, and family


Dean, Diann and family


Our Family


The five of us: Darlene, Ted, Tim, Diann, and Todd
It was so good to be all together.  We enjoyed sharing memories of mom and dad and just visiting. 


                                    "Hey, I want  to play but I like being on the bottom of the pile."

                                                                       "Cheese"

                                                               Two handsome young men

                                                                           Great smile Taylor!

                                           Our two newest cute baby girls, Charlotte & Paisley,
                                                        and their mom's, Maria & Shannon.

                                                                         Cute Kylie


                                                                      Wyatt and Grandpa

                                                           A little friendly competition

                                                       Jake & Tracy, comfy in grandpa's chair

Saying goodbye to Jake and Tracy

It was special to be able to spend time at Mom & Dad's house together after Dad's funeral.  We had fun together.  Mom and Dad's (Grandma and Grandpa's) house was always a great place to visit.  Mother always made our favorite foods and both she and Dad enjoyed playing games with us.  The house has many happy memories of family get-to-gethers, dinners, and reunions. I will miss the house when it is sold as I know all of you will.  However, without mom and dad, it is not the same.  They were the heart of that red house on Maple Street.  We will always have our memories.